BDSM

Ready for more than just vanilla sex? Whether gentle bondage play or hardcore sessions – here you'll find BDSM products that dominate, provoke, and seduce. For those who know what they want, or want to find out.

What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for Bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism – and for intense pleasure that goes beyond traditional sex. It's about power, devotion, and trust. Many people find it exciting to give up or take control. This can involve games of dominance and submission, Spanking or bondage techniques such as Bondage It's important to know that for many people, BDSM isn't a preference, but rather a part of their sexual identity, which is often deeply rooted in their personality. And that's precisely what makes BDSM so fascinating: It combines mind, body, and emotions in a game that goes far beyond mere stimulation.

Are bruises normal?
BDSM may seem radical to many people from the outside: bondage, beatings, and humiliation. But when practiced correctly, BDSM sex is not dangerous. It is a game of stimulation, power, and trust that develops with knowledge, mindfulness, and consent. Nevertheless, practices such as bondage or SM toys Visible marks appear – such as bruises or pressure marks. For many, this is normal; they are part of the experience, a sign of dedication and closeness. Proper care is important: cool immediately after the game (without applying ice to the skin), and later apply arnica or heparin cream. Give your body time to heal.

BDSM test: 6 crucial questions

Not sure whether you want to lead, follow, or both? No problem.
With a BDSM test you can find out where you feel comfortable.

Ask yourself the following questions:
- Does the idea of giving up control – or taking it – appeal to you?
- Does it excite you to give someone instructions – or to follow them/serve?
- Do you enjoy rewarding or punishing someone – or making yourself susceptible to it?
- Do you find it easy to take on responsibility, or does the idea of giving yourself completely appeal to you?
- Does the thought of letting someone feel your presence – without touching – excite you?
Or do you feel comfortable feeling small, delicate, or guided?
- Does your desire change depending on your mood or partner – or do you feel like you constantly belong to one role?

If you find yourself more in the active response parts, your inclination lies in the dominant area (Dom/Top).
If the surrendering side appeals to you more, you tend to prefer submission (sub/bottom).
If both apply to you, you are probably a switch – and enjoy both roles depending on the situation.

What are BDSM toys?

BDSM toys open up new possibilities to explore your sexuality playfully and consciously. They are designed to make the dynamics of dominance and submission a pleasurable experience. Whether restraints, masks, or BDSM whips: These special tools create the basis for intensive experiences between power and trust.

Unlike traditional sex toys, BDSM products aim to give up or take control – entirely according to your wishes. They enable play with pain, stimulation, and psychological depth. Whether you're just starting out or already experienced: In our BDSM Shop you will find unique BDSM sex toys that are exclusively available from us.

Which BDSM products are the right one for me?

Whether you're a beginner or a pro, choosing the right BDSM product depends on what truly excites you. Restraints, blindfolds, and gentle whips are perfect starting points. For more control or dominance, BDSM masks, spreader or gag.

The important thing is that you should feel safe and comfortable. Start with a small BDSM set or individual parts and discover what fascinates you. Our exclusive BDSM products offer you not only quality but also a stylish, functional design – ideal for taking your fantasies to the next level.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the meaning of BDSM?

BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. It describes pleasurable, consensual practices centered around power, control, devotion, and pain – always based on trust and clear communication.

How did the BDSM history go from the beginning to the present?

BDSM practices have a long history, dating back to ancient times. Even ancient cultures like Greece and Rome featured erotic rituals involving bondage, domination, and punishment. The first literary works appeared in the 18th and 19th centuries, for example, by Marquis de Sade and Leopold von Sacher-Masoch—they coined terms like sadism and masochism.

In the 20th century, BDSM became increasingly visible: first in the shadows of subculture, later through magazines, clubs, and the internet. Today, BDSM is a broad, enlightened field—diverse, individual, and increasingly socially accepted.

What is BDSM sex?

BDSM sex is a form of sexuality that is about more than just satisfaction. Power imbalances, devotion, and control are central – voluntary, conscious, and intense. Bondage, dominance, and targeted stimulation play a central role.

It can be gentle and playful or hard and demanding – depending on preferences and boundaries. The important thing is always that everything happens consensually, with trust and clear communication between those involved.

Is BDSM a fetish?

Not exactly. While BDSM is often confused with fetishism, the two are quite different in terms of content. A fetish describes a strong, often necessary arousal by certain objects or materials—e.g., leather, latex, or high heels. It's less about the act or relationship than about the material or object itself that triggers the desire.

BDSM, on the other hand, is not purely about objectification, but primarily encompasses dynamic, psychological processes: power, control, devotion, trust. It's about roles—about the emotional depth between Dom and sub. Of course, the two tendencies can overlap. For example, if someone can only truly let go in tight restraints, the bondage fetish acts as an amplifier for the play.

How do I deal with BDSM traces in everyday life?

A hickey is okay, but traces of a spanking or bondage marks on your wrist? That quickly raises questions at the office or during family visits. You can easily conceal BDSM marks with clothing or makeup. And if someone asks? You're not obligated to explain yourself.

You decide whether you want to be honest or whether you prefer to pretend it was a sporting mishap. What is important is: You don't have to be ashamed—you live your desires. Confidently, but discreetly.

Sub, cathedral, top, bottom, Switch - what does that mean?

BDSM isn't just about practices, but about dynamics between people. The Dom takes the lead—sets rules, gives orders, and assumes responsibility. The sub follows voluntarily, relinquishing control, and often experiences deep pleasure in the process. Top and bottom describe more physical roles: who actively gives, who receives. A top isn't always dominant.

Switchers alternate between leading and following roles depending on their mood or partner—they embrace both. Important: These roles don't reflect their everyday personality. You can be a boss at work—and submissive in bed. Whether you're a Dom, Sub, or Switch often only becomes apparent during play. With the right communication, this develops into genuine, safe intimacy.

How do BDSM sex toys work?

BDSM sex toys are designed to intensify pleasure, enable control, or playfully explore boundaries. They work through bondage, stimulation, or sensory deprivation – for example, through handcuffs, gags, whips or masks.

Are BDSM products right for me?

If the attraction of dominance, submission or targeted stimulation appeals to you, BDSM toys could be just the right thing for you. It is important to start slowly, to communicate openly and to listen to your feeling.

What kind of clothing is suitable for BDSM?

BDSM clothing emphasizes the body and underlines roles or fantasies. Materials such as latex, synthetic leather or mesh are suitable-often closely attached, with zippers, buckles or cut-outs that combine function and eroticism.